Achieving North Star-ness
But achieving North Star-ness is genuine calmness when you’re no longer fighting yourself. And because humans have evolved to co-regulate, a calm leader can literally reset everyone’s nervous system. ...more
Martial Arts ,tips and exercises Resilience Joy And Fun Play Flow State &Imposter Syndrome
August 25, 2026•2 min read
Need a Vacation from my Vacations
“Do you have any fun vacations coming up?” the bank teller was making small talk. “No! Thank God!” I said, exasperated. “I couldn’t handle another vacation right now.” “Why is that?” “I play hard!” ...more
Personal Stories ,Resilience Health And Wellness &Play
September 12, 2025•2 min read
From Gutter Balls to Strikes
I went bowling for the first time in 40+ years, with my husband and friends who are actually pretty good. My score? • Gutter balls. • A foul (momentum carried me over the line). • I actually hit so... ...more
Martial Arts ,Personal Stories Failure Play &Flow State
August 15, 2025•2 min read
Power Over Your Mind
Researchers have found that people who develop a strong sense of agency—like Marcus did—are better at handling uncertainty. 💡 When we reset ourselves, we reclaim the capacity to lead instead of reac... ...more
Mental Health Hygiene ,Wellness Resilience Play &Big Ideas
April 21, 2025•2 min read
Applied Mindfulness for Real Life
“You need to practice mindfulness,” they say. That’s great, when it works. But for many, mindfulness can feel frustrating. Sitting still and focusing on the breath might feel boring, agitating, or i... ...more
tips and exercises ,Mental Health Hygiene Intentionality Joy And Fun &Play
March 05, 2025•2 min read
What Lights You Up?
Yesterday, I spent two hours outside practicing my weapons kata on a crisp autumn day. It felt like a celebration because I’m finally recovering from months-long struggles with my stomach and gut. ...more
Self-Care ,Joy And Fun Health And Wellness &Play
November 18, 2024•2 min read
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